14 and 19 year old dating
This did not make her go out and jump the first boy she dated. It's difficult as each family has differing opinions on this matter.Be open or be closed, either way she'll do it 'cause she wants to or 'cause he (whether it's this boy or not) wants her to.He was a complete gentleman and never tried anything on and continued to be there for me long after we broke up (watched out for when other, less well intentioned boys of my age were up to no good! I know I was lucky to find that but try not to jump to worrying conclusions.Can you and her dad talk to her about the bf, about rules and boundaries and a curfew?As PPs have said, trying to stop her will probably only push her further to him and possibly to behaviours that might not arise otherwise.
Perhaps both of you should just have a frank and honest talk with her and remind her that she should be responsible, which, as we all know, responsibility and consequences go out the window when hormones are flying. I gave my 15 year old DD condoms and told her to carry them everywhere with her, just in case.
This is the case if: Is it statutory rape if I am 16 and my girlfriend is 19? Statutory rape happens when your boyfriend or girlfriend is at least 18 years old AND is four (4) years older than you.
Therefore, if you are 16 and your girlfriend is 19, you are only 3 years apart and it is not statutory rape.
If you've had a chat and know that she's aware of taking precautions etc then it really doea come down to you trusting her.
15 is an age where a girl can be quite mature and perhaps feels on a par with a 19 year old rather than boys her own age.