Friend dating my ex boyfriend
I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. We’ve both been loving, attentive, kind and considerate.
Mainly, it was just a nuisance, (nothing threatening) and it got so intrusive that I had to spell it out in bold capital letters “DO NOT CONTACT ME, do not call, do not text, do not email,” in bold letters (despite not having any real hatred for him).
You should not be subjected to his intrusions at work, and any reasonable employer will want to protect you from that.
Please talk with someone in a position of authority in your office about this guy today.
(For instance, do not respond to him , no matter how many times he contacts you, or he’ll just learn that the price of a response from you is 17 contacts, or whatever.
There’s tons of advice about situations like this in the book, not all of which is intuitive, and it also has good advice on how to tell if a situation is changing from merely a nuisance to something more concerning.) As for how to handle it at work …